Is it ideal for my parent to decide whom I should marry?
Lost your password? Please enter your email address. You will receive a link and will create a new password via email.
Connect with like-minded individuals, ask questions, share ideas, and participate in discussions on a variety of topics.
Lost your password? Please enter your email address. You will receive a link and will create a new password via email.
Please briefly explain why you feel this question should be reported.
Please briefly explain why you feel this answer should be reported.
Please briefly explain why you feel this user should be reported.
It’s understandable that parents want to be involved in such a big decision, but deciding who you marry should ultimately be your choice. Marriage is about your happiness and partnership, so it has to feel right for you first. Parents can guide and share their perspective, but if they try to controlRead more
It’s understandable that parents want to be involved in such a big decision, but deciding who you marry should ultimately be your choice. Marriage is about your happiness and partnership, so it has to feel right for you first. Parents can guide and share their perspective, but if they try to control it, it can create tension and unhappiness. Finding a way to respect their input while staying true to yourself is the key to a lasting, happy marriage.
See lessI'm no advocate of an arranged marriage or interference of parents in one's marutal journey. I don't find a type of marriage that occurs as a result of a third party's orchestration ideal I don't like the idea of coupling a man and a woman who have no organic and interpersonal relationship with eachRead more
I’m no advocate of an arranged marriage or interference of parents in one’s marutal journey. I don’t find a type of marriage that occurs as a result of a third party’s orchestration ideal
I don’t like the idea of coupling a man and a woman who have no organic and interpersonal relationship with each other by parents but the final decision still belongs to persons involved. I believe people should have the right to choose who they want to marry, but sometimes, this right can be used wrongly.
Calmly and respectfully allow them to voice their objections But if you don’t like it just reassure them that your partner will make a good spouse
See lessThis is 2025 and a lot of change has happened on how we do things. Parents were the ones who choose spouses for their children in the olden days because they believe that they know what best for their children. But nowadays that is not the case because we communicate with ourselves much better compaRead more
This is 2025 and a lot of change has happened on how we do things.
See lessParents were the ones who choose spouses for their children in the olden days because they believe that they know what best for their children.
But nowadays that is not the case because we communicate with ourselves much better compared to the olding days.
And this is thanks to social media platforms that helps us talk to each other without seeing the need of leaving our comfort zone
While people often have different opinions about this, personally i don't think it is right for the parents to decide who the child marries. Yes they can ship in a few things, they can even put in a few good words for the particular one they believe is best for you but at the end of the day, you areRead more
While people often have different opinions about this, personally i don’t think it is right for the parents to decide who the child marries. Yes they can ship in a few things, they can even put in a few good words for the particular one they believe is best for you but at the end of the day, you are the one going into the marriage not them, so they shouldn’t be the one to choose. Then again it would be best to not rush and take out time to find out while they want you to marry that particular person.
See lessAs far as marriage is concerned, it is all about the two persons that are involved. There is no basis for any other external person to interfere in the decision making process for that. No one would be there to face the challenges in the marriage with you. It is soothing in the midst of the challengRead more
As far as marriage is concerned, it is all about the two persons that are involved. There is no basis for any other external person to interfere in the decision making process for that. No one would be there to face the challenges in the marriage with you. It is soothing in the midst of the challenge to know that you solely chose to marry that person. It would be painful in challenging moments to know that someone chose that partner for you.
See lessWhile parents might be well meaning to choose spouses for their children this might not be ideal in many cases because marriage is the coming together of two people and therefore they must agree on certain essential values to be compatible with each other In a well meaning opinion if parents chooseRead more
While parents might be well meaning to choose spouses for their children this might not be ideal in many cases because marriage is the coming together of two people and therefore they must agree on certain essential values to be compatible with each other
See lessIn a well meaning opinion if parents choose an individual to be a spouse the children should be given opportunity to know themselves if they are compatible then marriage can take place but if not it may result in troubled marriage